Three Things I Wish Others Knew About Me (and How I Can Share Them)
Hi friends! If you’ve listened to the podcast, you’ve heard me talking (a lot, I know—I’m a talker!). But I’ve been reflecting on something lately: how often we assume people know what matters to us, or who we are beyond our work or words. So today, I’m peeling back the curtain a bit and sharing three things I wish others knew about me. And, because I’m all about action plans, I’m also exploring how I can share these with others more intentionally.
“I’ve spent a lot of my life striving for perfection, but I’m learning to embrace 'good enough' and celebrate progress over perfection.”
I’m a Perfectionist in Recovery
I know, I know. You’ve probably heard me preach on the podcast about giving yourself grace, embracing imperfections, and just getting started even if you’re unsure. The truth is, I’m constantly reminding myself of these things, too. I’ve spent a lot of my life striving for perfection, but I’m learning to embrace "good enough" and celebrate progress over perfection.
How I Can Share This:
By being honest about my struggles when they pop up. Instead of just saying, "It’s okay to not be perfect," I can share when I’m wrestling with my own inner critic. I think there’s power in saying, "Hey, I’m in the same boat as you," and I want to practice that vulnerability more.
I Need Quiet Time to Recharge
I love connecting with people (you’ve seen me at conferences, right?), but what you might not know is that I’m an introvert at heart. I need quiet time to recharge my batteries. After a day of coaching, speaking, or hosting a podcast, I’m most likely curled up with a good book or a craft project, soaking up the stillness.
How I Can Share This:
By setting boundaries and explaining them. For example, if I say I need a little quiet time before jumping into a meeting or event, it’s not that I don’t want to connect—it’s that I want to show up as my best self when I do. I can also share glimpses of my recharging moments on social media (hello, bookstagram!).
I Am a Work in Progress, Just Like Everyone Else
If you’ve ever thought I have it all figured out, let me set the record straight: I don’t. Yes, I’ve had incredible experiences and grown a lot as a leader, but there are still days I feel like I’m fumbling my way through. The more I’ve embraced being a learner for life, the more I’ve realized how much we all have in common.
How I Can Share This:
By telling more stories. I love a good "remember that time I totally bombed and learned a huge lesson?" moment, and sharing these stories on the podcast, in workshops, or even in conversations helps build that connection. It’s a reminder that we’re all navigating our own paths, and no one has a monopoly on getting it right.
Wrapping It Up
Sharing who we are isn’t always easy, but it’s essential for building authentic relationships. It’s how we find our people, those who "get" us, and how we create spaces where others feel safe to be themselves, too.
So, what about you? What are three things you wish others knew about you? And how can you share them? I’d love to hear your thoughts—because the more we share, the more we grow. 💜
Keep being awesome,
Stephanie
